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The Sameness Is The Opening

Everybody in your industry sounds identical and you’ve been trying to sound slightly better than them. Wrong game. Look at your competitors’ websites for ten minutes. Same stock photos of people shaking hands. Same phrases about being passionate and committed to excellence. Same three service tiers. Same tone, which is to say no tone at […]

The Guy Who Got You Here Has A Ceiling

The Guy Who Got You Here Has A Ceiling

You want a bigger life and you’re trying to get there without changing anything about who you are. Doesn’t work. Never has. Every man wants the upgraded version of his circumstances. The bigger business, the better marriage, the body that doesn’t hurt when he gets out of bed. And almost nobody wants the part where […]

Legacy Is Not What You Leave Them

Legacy Is Not What You Leave Them

You’ve got a plan for what your kids get when you’re gone. The policy. The property. Maybe a business, maybe a number in an account, maybe a house you paid off two years early so nobody could ever take it. You’ve thought about it more than you admit. Most men have. Here’s what I’ve landed […]

Your Sons Are Watching 

Your Sons Are Watching 

You know it. You feel it every time you promise your son you’ll be at the game and you’re not. Every time you say “next weekend,” and next weekend becomes next month. Every time you tell yourself you’re grinding for them while you barely see them. You already know they’re watching. The question is what […]

Andrew Tate Isn’t the Problem

Andrew Tate Isn’t the Problem

I read what you read. I know what you know. Listen guys, I’ve never personally met Andrew Tate. I don’t have insider information and I don’t have any legal standing on what he’s accused of. Do I agree with a lot of what he says? Absolutely. Do I disagree with a lot of what he […]

If Nothing Changes, Nothing Changes

Let me hit you with something obvious that most people still ignore. If nothing changes, nothing changes. You’ve heard it before. Maybe even said it.But have you ever actually lived it? Because that line, as simple as it sounds, might be the very thing holding you back. You Say You Want Change. Do You Really? […]

They Don’t Even Like Themselves. So Why Are You Trying to Impress Them?

They Don’t Even Like Themselves. So Why Are You Trying to Impress Them? Let me say something that might hit a little harder than you’re ready for. Most people don’t even like who they are.But you’re still trying to get them to like you? That’s the game you’re playing? That’s the approval you’re chasing? You’re […]

WHY YOU NEED A COACH

WHY YOU NEED A COACH

The first thing to understand about hiring a coach is that it is an INVESTMENT. Not a luxury… Professional athletes don’t go to a coach when they are losing, they start the game with a coach and a clear game plan. Professional actors don’t go to a coach if they suck at acting, they work […]

MASTER THE BASICS

MASTER THE BASICS

You complicate too many things. Go to a professional baseball or basketball game. These guys are making tens of millions of dollars a year to play MLB or in the NBA. Now WATCH THEM WARM UP. Seriously, get to the game a little early and just watch them. What do you see? You see grown […]

HOW TO STOP SCHOOL SHOOTINGS IN AMERICA

HOW TO STOP SCHOOL SHOOTINGS IN AMERICA

First of all, you CAN NOT stop school shootings. Just like you can not stop prostitution, drug sales, murder, bad parenting, obesity and robbery. It would be nice to see all these things magically disappear, but as long as there are people having children there will be bad parents and as long as people have […]